Thursday, December 19, 2013

Photo Shoot With Children's Book And Fiction Author JZ Bingham



*Please make sure to check out the slideshow below!


I first met JZ earlier this year at the Santa Barbara Writer's Conference and was quickly drawn to her warmth and candor. I've made some really wonderful friends with fellow writers over the last ten years of my involvement with the conference and it has been a special treat getting to know Jasmine (as her friends call her). Besides being a talented author of a hot-off-the-press series of The Salty Splashes Collection of Children's Books, she's a stunning, radiant woman on the inside and out.




Before our shoot she kept warning me that she's traditionally been uncomfortable in front of the camera and doesn't consider herself photogenic. As soon as I started shooting her, it was immediately apparent that she's quite the opposite. She's stunning in person and a total natural in front of the camera. 


This was so much fun to do with her. She wanted to show some other more candid shots of herself as the multi-dimensional author that she is. 

I'm blown away by how her radiance comes through in these photos…the light was sublime. It was a magical shoot and I can't wait to photograph her again!

You can check out her websites here….and her books, of course, make wonderful holiday presents as well!

Let's do this again, Jasmine!

JZ Bingham Author Website
Salty Splashes Collection of Children's Books


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Thursday, December 05, 2013

AWC-SB's Annual Holiday And Awards Party At Municipal Winemaker

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Big congratulations to AWC-SB Member Of The Year Winner Lisa Angle of "Ninety Degrees Media"  and Nonprofit Of The Year "Storyteller Children's Center."

Happy Holidays to you all!




Monday, November 25, 2013

The American Riviera Woman Entrepreneur Of The Years Awards 2013





*Enjoy the slideshow at the end of this post!  The Arwey Awards were founded by Executive Director Tia Walker here in Santa Barbara, California. This year's awards were held on Saturday, November 16th 2013 at The Bacara Resort and Spa


I learned a few years ago that basically anything that Tia Walker touches usually turns to gold and sparkles with magical and powerful intention in the world! Being in the room and sharing an afternoon with such incredibly motivated and inspiring women was a powerful experience for all of us. She miraculously brought together a diverse group of heavy-hitting women from around the country in order to both celebrate each of their achievements and to inspire all of us towards more intentional living in this world.

There is an indelible strength that comes from supporting each other in moving towards our dreams and giving back to the world. 

From listening to the work that the panelists are doing in the world to being treated to some fantastic music including a humorous "Tiara Song" by Penelope and then a surprise performance by Rickie Byars Beckwith of the Agape Spiritual Center it was difficult to not feel spiritually uplifted by the end of the afternoon. 

We can't merely walk our own paths with purpose, we must support our sisters in walking their own as well. And this is where we will get our fuel to continue on and our inspiration to always aim higher. 

I couldn't have put it better than Sister Janet (another award recipient) put it, "No one has it all together but together we have it all." 


Amen, Sister! 

Enjoy the slideshow that I put together from this beautiful event! Please feel free to share the link with all of your friends and anyone else who was involved with this beautiful day. A big thanks to Tia Walker and all of her hard-working volunteers who helped make this day happen. 

May you all continue to walk the walk. 

With Love And Blessings,
 Rachel ☆⋰⋱★⋰⋱☆⋰⋱★۰̮̑●̮̑۰
www.rsthurston.com
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A Message From Tia….

The Bigger ARWEY Vision ~ by Founder Tia Walker

Thanks to the brilliant photographic talents of Rachel S. Thurston (of r.s.thurston photography), there is a slideshow of the event that will delight your heart and you'll receive a joy blast :) just by watching.

Your support of the ARWEY Awards extends beyond the borders of Santa Barbara and reaches remote areas of Tanzania and Ghana. Together with our sister city of Monaco, we are building a bridge to help women through the sometimes harsh reality of oppression and lack of access to capital through micro loans, training and mentoring. Our intention is to partner with existing organizations and support their efforts both locally and globally.  We feel no need to start something "new" as there are many organizations that are established to meet the needs, we simply support those efforts.

As we gather with our families and friends this Thanksgiving and holiday season I ask that as a community we take a moment to support the very life changing gift of economic development through entrepreneurship. These micro businesses, feed families, bring women out of oppressed situations and change communities. Imagine a world where everyone on this planet is fed and has fresh drinking water and a means to sustain themselves. That is a very real possibility as we shift our focus to a global connected community and assist those with less access to capital.

You may help by making a donation or bidding on the beautiful Shona art piece "Reach for your dreams" by Zimbabwe artist Marion Nyanhongo which supports the micro loan programs and local organizations who are taking the charge with community changing work. For auction visit:

For individual donations contact us at ARWEY:  http://arweyawards.com/contact.html

Thank you! Sending you warm holiday wishes and welcome to the ARWEY Circle of Light community.

Tia
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1) If you would like to order any of these prints please visit this gallery here: http://rsthurston.zenfolio.com/arweyawardsprints

2) If you would like to order any digital downloads of these photos please visit this gallery here: http://rsthurston.zenfolio.com/arweyawardsdigidownload







Wednesday, November 13, 2013

Alpha's Diamonds & Denim 60th Anniversary Celebration!


*Make sure to enjoy the slideshow right below! 

Location: Santa Barbara Carriage House Museum
Saturday, November 2 2013


I've been working with Alpha Resource Center for the past three or more years. They are one of my favorite SB organizations to work with b/c of the heart they put into everything that they do. It's impossible to attend or participate in one of their events without feeling buoyed by the love and support in this community.


Their 60th Anniversary Celebration "Diamonds and Denim" was no exception. From Gabe and Jerry Donovan's beautiful rendition of "Upside Down" by Jack Johnson to watching an entertaining auctioneer--Zachary Krone--spin his magic and rally for some very generous sponsorship from major Alpha Supporters to enjoying a super fun dance set…it was difficult to not smile and feel celebratory!

I think the photos say it all…Alpha is truly giving so much to this community and you can feel the sense of "family" when you attend their events. I'm grateful to be a part of the Alpha "Family" as their photographer and as a proud supporter of all that they do!

Bravo to the Alpha Staff, participants, participants' families, the Alpha volunteers, and all of the generous families and sponsors who have been such a vital part of keeping Alpha going all these years. 

It's a pleasure to know each of you! I hope you enjoy this slideshow~ Feel free to leave your comments below and share this link with your Alpha friends and supporters~

Cheers, 
Rachel
r.s.thurston photography

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Wednesday, November 06, 2013

Tia and Kaylin's Wine and Social Meetup Halloween Party!




I love October and I LOVE MILKING EVERY LAST DROP OF HALLOWEEN! This year was no exception. Among a few other wonderful gatherings, I had the pleasure of attending Tia and Kaylin's SB Wine and Social Meetup Halloween Party at 240 Studio (a beautiful space run by fellow photog Michelle Lee).

I really enjoyed mingling with some wonderful people...a mixture of familiar faces as well as many new peeps to the SB Scene. Big Thanks to Tia, Kaylin, Michelle and their many helpers for a wonderful, Halloween-ey evening!

I took so many fun photos from the night that I coudn't resist putting them into a slideshow! Enjoy and feel free to share this link with your friends~



Monday, November 04, 2013

BEST FILM FESTIVAL EVER!! ;-) The Flagstaff Mountain Film Festival 2013


My Brilliant, World-Traveling Mother discovered this incredible gem of a film festival about ten years ago and brought me onto shortly thereafter. Over the past several years we have watched this lil ole home-grown film fest grow into a 5-day affair featuring movies from 70 countries.


Today we are absolute adventure travel film junkies. The Flag Mountain Film Fest features almost all documentaries on outdoor adventure, cultural and environmental causes, as well as humanitarian issues. You can go to a ridiculous number of movies for a ridiculously little amount of $. Each 3-hour session costs only $10 but you can buy a Film Fest VIP Pass (just love the way it sounds actually!) like The Thurston Girls and get into every session you want for five days as well as attend multiple special events.

How much does the VIP Pass cost? $60. That’s it!

We attended a total of 30 hours of films and special events during a four day period. Every year I come out of the film festival feeling like my LIFE BATTERY HAS BEEN RECHARGED! ;-) In addition, we've become friends with a couple of the film festival directors as well as some of the filmmakers whom we have met over the years.

By the end of the week it feels like we have traveled the world and had a taste of these amazing “moments” of adventures, been inspired by men, women, and kids doing incredible work in the world, and been educated on issues we had no awareness of beforehand.


I basically come out of it wanting to go do AWESOME THINGS IN THE WORLD!

This year’s highlights for me spanned everything from young Norwegian guys doing  Arctic Surfing in a recycled shelter to spending Christmas without Chinese Goods to climbing Pakistan’s K2 to trying to break the world record for rowing across the Atlantic Ocean.


I’m hoping many of these movies will make it to other film festivals where you live. Most of these films are also available to purchase through the filmmakers. A select few will be picked up by tv networks like HBO and PBS.

Here are just a few of our favorites from this year…..Because many of the sessions were occurring simultaneously we weren't able to see all of the films offered but we did manage to about 80% of the films this year. 

Fav Adventure Films:

“North Of The Sun”
46 Minutes, Norway, 2012
Directors & Producers: Inge Wegge, Jorn Ranum


This is one of my favorite docs from the festival this year b/c it’s a hybrid (part-surfing, part-environmental) and b/c it has the three elements of a truly wonderful film. Great story, great characters, and fantastic video work.

North Of The Sun follows two young Norwegian guys who decide it would be fun to camp out in the Arctic during THE WINTER on a remote beach without any tents or supplies. They make a pact to subsist on free expired food from groceries and to build a shelter out of only items they can find washed up on shore.

Sound a little masochistic? It is yet the two guys seem to keep upbeat through the darkness of an Arctic Winter and will surprise you with their inventiveness.

Beautifully filmed as well from both the ground and the air (one of them just happens to be a bada$$ paraglider as well…is there anything they can’t do?!). ;-)

“Naked Ambition”
87 Minutes, UK, 2012
Director: Joe Wihl
Producer: Oliver Gray

Rowing across the Atlantic. Another two guys (why does it always seems to be the young guys?) charged with testosterone attempt to beat the world rowing record for crossing the Atlantic Ocean.

Like many great adventure tales, you see these guys go from being a little cocky and sure they will be the world record to many days later realixing they won’t but just looking forward to making good time and having a great story to hoping they will just survive the trip.

Rowing unsupported across any great ocean is a fine line between keeping your boat light but having enough food and supplies to sustain the trip. If you run into bad weather it can cost you time and possibly, your life.

“K2: Siren Of The Himalayas”
75 Minutes, USA, 2013
Director: Dave Ohlson
Producers: Jason Reid, Andy McDonough



Mom and I are gluttons for mountaineering movies...maybe it's b/c we love high altitude and pushing our bodies to the extreme but we also know that we're not masochistic enough to get into extreme mountaineering yet are drawn to it nonetheless. 

We especially enjoyed this film on the world's most dangerous and mercurial mountain.
"K2" weaves together archival footage from The Duke of Abruzzi's expedition on K2 along with footage from a 2009 summit attempt by some of the most skilled mountaineers in the world while skillfully examining the difficult and humbling decisions that mountaineers must face in giving up summit bids in order to stay alive. This film showing was also a special treat as three of the guys behind the film were there in person to talk about the trials and tribulations of distilling a story down to its essence....after editing through100 hours of footage.

“MaidenTrip”
81 Minutes, USA, 2013
Directors: Jillian Schlessinger, Emily McAllister

I love bigwater expeditions…whether they’re on the world’s longest river or across one of the Great Oceans. Maidentrip follows Dutch teenager Laura Dekker’s attempt to break the world record for the youngest person (and woman!) to sail around the world solo. She started the trip at 14 years old.

It’s no wonder that people were up in arms. It’s scary to imagine a 14 year old driving a car let alone womanning a sailboat alone. Yet she proves herself to be among history’s strongest sailors…not only does she have the technical skills to do it but she is at her best and calmest alone and facing the ocean’s worst. It’s when she’s around people that you see her nerves start to fray.

Accompanied by a beautiful musical score by Ben Sollee? And subtly done animation by The Moth Collective, Maidentrip is an enjoyable and gentle ride. The one issue with following someone like  Dekker at sea is that a solo trip around the world almost appears easy and effortless. Which I know it isn’t. It might have been helpful to have other sailors talking about how scary it can be at sea or how difficult some of the situations can be.

Yet Dekker seems to be having her own sort of slumber party on the boat without much mention of how close you can be to death when you’re alone at sea.

I still very much enjoyed the film. Makes me want to go try it out.
Hopefully it won’t encourage many 10 year olds to try it, too.

*Other Noteworthy Adventure Films to check out….
“The Ridge” 81 Minutes from Spain

Favorite Environmental Films:

“Growing Cities”
90 Minutes, USA, 2012
Director: Dan Susman
Producers: Dan Susman, Dana Altman, Andrew Monbouquette


Super fun road trip following Susman and his buddies as they travel around the U.S. looking at how normal folk are turning unused public lots in large cities into farmable land that both provides job opportunities for urban dwellers while providing healthy, organic fruits and veggies to locals while simultaneously connecting people with the earth and improving the aesthetics of vacant lots. Really enjoyed this one!

“Musicwood”
81 Minutes, USA, 2012
Director: Maxine Trump
Producer: Josh Granger


An elegantly rendered film on a complex battle over the rights to use and/or protect one of the largest unbroken stands of temperate rainforest in the world…situated in remote Alaska. The leader of Greenpeace rallies the world’s top three guitar makers to travel to Alaska to try to convince the indigenous leaders of a corporation to move from clear-cutting to a more sustainable form of logging.

*OTHER NOTEWORTHY ENVIRONMENTAL FILMS TO CHECK OUT:
"The Human Scale" 77 Minutes from Denmark
“Tiny: Story Of Living Small” 63 Minutes from the USA
“Bidder 70” 73 Minutes from the USA

Favorite Cultural Films:

“The Only Son”
78 Minutes, The Netherlands, Belgium, 2012
Director: Simonka de Jong
Producers: Carolign Borgdorff, Suzanne Van Voorst
This is one of the best films I have yet to see which illustrates that difficult clash between a family that is transitioning from a subsistent agrarian culture to an urban and global one.

“Xmas Without China”
63 Minutes, USA, 2013
Director: Alicia Dwyer
Producers: Alicia Dwyer, Tom Xia


This is a fantastic look at a cultural juxtaposition….an American Family trying to celebrate a month of Christmas without any products from China and the filmmaker’s  (Tom Xia) Chinese-American Parents embracing an American Christmas. A provocative and often humorous look at what it means to be an American and Chinese-American, America’s dependence on Chinese products, what Christmas means to us culturally, and how blurry line can be between cultural and national identities can be.

“I Learn America”
92 Minutes, Australia, 2013
Director & Producer: Nicholas Covelli

A very endearing and heartfelt film following the lives of several teenagers trying to navigate their way through high school as immigrants from extremely disparate backgrounds (Latin America, Asia, Eastern Europe, and the Middle East). In addition to facing the normal challenges of teenhood, they are faced with their own mix of additional personal and cultural challenges (ranging from extreme religious upbringings to gender identity and languages barriers). 

“Vultures Of Tibet”
21 Minutes, USA/Canada, 2013
Director: Russell O. Bush
Producers: Elisabeth Oakham, Annie Bush



Doing any film on Tibet within the boundaries of China is a difficult and dangerous undertaking yet an important one if at the very least to document how the Supernation is impacting ancient Tibetan traditions within its borders.

Bush took three years to carefully take undercover footage (with the blessing and help of Tibetan monks and refugees) of a sacred ritual and how corrupt govt officials are selling tickets to Chinese Tourists to watch it without Tibetans’ approval.

Bush delicately conveys the ritual and its participants and outside voyeurs in a respectful and careful manner. He also protected the identity of the featured monks by doing voiceovers recorded by Tibetan Refugees in Daramsala, India.

“After Effects”
29 Minutes, USA/Haiti, 2013
Director & Producer: Denise M. Stilley
Super heartwarming film by Flagstaff local filmmaker Stilley which highlights the relief efforts in Haiti by the non-profit Northern Arizona Volunteer Medical Corp (NAVMC). NAVMC makes regular trips to help the men, women, and children of this Caribbean Nation in the aftermath of the 7.0 earthquake which impacted 3 million people (and was estimated to have killed anywhere from 100,000 to 300,000 people). 

*OTHER NOTEWORTHY CULTURAL FILMS TO CHECK OUT:
“Blood Brother” 93 Minutes from the USA



“Tales From The Organ Trade” 82 Minutes from Canada
“Narco Cultura” 102 Minutes from USA/Mexico
“Running Blind” 31 Minutes from the USA

Favorite Extreme Films:

“Petzl Roctrip China”
23 Minutes, France, 2012
Director: Vladimir Cellier
Producer: Petzl

I have seen A LOT of climbing movies over the past ten years between films that have appeared at the Banff, Telluride, and Flag Mtn. Film Fests. Trust me on this one.

I’m always looking for some film which has a unique and refreshing approach to climbing and this one does not disappoint. Focusing on a climbing event in rural China in a giant limestone waterway arch, the film editor of “Petzl Roctrip China” is the unsung hero here (they often are!). He or she has a mesmerizing, rhythmic approach to stitching scenes and dialogue together to a fantastic soundtrack. It becomes a dj-like symphony that you can’t help but bob your head to.

There’s a small story here—which is true of many short climbing movies--but the lyrical ride is a beautiful one and takes you into the heart of a very special place in China.

“Honnold 3.0”
32 Minutes, USA, 2012
Directors: Peter Mortimer, Josh Lowell
Producers: Peter Mortimer, Josh Lowell, Nick Rosen, Alex Lowther


Okay, if you’re not familiar with the world climbing phenom Alex Honnold, then watch this film or any film on him. He’s a tall, wholesome-looking, and unassuming young American guy who just happens to be the boldest climber in the world. Among other feats, he takes on a speed record for climbing the three greatest walls in Yosemite (each of which can take up to a week to do for skilled climbers) in less than….24 hours!

It’s nerve racking to watch Honnold free climb (no ropes, folks) for much of these three climbs. The only thing missing from this is an interview with his mother sharing us how she must cope knowing the risks her son is taking everytime he climbs.

He is ridiculously good and it is ridiculously scary watching him take these chances. There is no margin for error if he slips when he is unclipped.

Does he make it?
Watch for yourself.







Thursday, October 03, 2013

Elliot and Julie's Santa Barbara Wedding


*Enjoy the slideshow below~ ;-) 

"Love must be as much a light, as it is a flame."  
~Henry David Thoreau

What a beautiful morning this was and a total treat to meet and photograph Elliot and Julie for their intimate ceremony at the Santa Barbara Courthouse. There's wasn't a cloud in the sky. They've just moved to Santa Barbara and are making a home here now and looking forward to sharing their new paradise with their friends and family.

They couldn't have picked a more beautiful way to start their life here!
All my love and congratulations to you both. I hope I have the opportunity to photograph you both again...it was a total delight!







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Sunday, August 04, 2013

Kathleen Barry's Celebration






This was truly a special occasion for Kathleen. For the past couple of years she has been grieving the loss of her husband of 23 years and after so much pain....this is her year to SHINE. She is stepping out from the shadow of grief and embracing the world again in a new skin as an independent and radiant woman.

As the light became more golden and her bottle of bubbly flowed over, our connection and her comfort grew even more beautiful. Serendipitously we ran into a woman who was celebrating her pregnancy and was also doing a photo shoot. Out of the blue she presented us with a beautifully hand-crafted wreath of eucalyptus leaves, lavender, and a pink rose as if knowing that Kathleen was also celebrating a very special birth of her own. 


The Universe indeed works in beautiful and unexpected ways.


Here's to living life large AND OUT LOUD, Kathleen! May you step into your new power and beauty with every day. Looking forward to being a witness to that!








 



Wednesday, July 17, 2013

La Casa De Maria Dedication of "The Shalom Garden" In Honor Of Roy Mankovitz


Sunday June 30th Dedication of "The Shalom Garden" at La Casa De Maria In Honor of Roy Mankovitz

*Enjoy the slideshow at the end of this blog and Kathleen's Love Letter To Roy. If you'd like to watch it in full screen, click on the box icon in the lower right side of screen. If the music doesn't come on when you click "play" then refresh your screen and click "play" again.
 **There was a beautiful bluejay which I noticed during the Dedication that flew over and started singing throughout the whole Dedication. I included a photo of it in the slideshow.


The world knew him to be a rocket scientist, lawyer, inventor, health researcher, and author but his family and friends were blessed to know a man who was more than the sum of his parts. He was a charimastic, big-hearted friend, father, and husband full of life and his death took all of his loved ones by total surprise.

I was incredibly blessed to have been invited (thanks to Ray Estrada, Cindy Faith Swain, and Kathleen Barry) to photograph the Dedication of The Shalom Garden at La Casa De Maria to honor Roy Mankovitz's Memory. I have been to many Memorials and Tributes over the years and have never heard more eloquent words spoken in honor of a passed loved ones as I heard on that hot summer day. Many of us were brought to tears as his friends and family shared their memories of Roy over the years. 

It was a fitting tribute for a man so full of life that I can only imagine he must have been proud to see.



It's difficult and downright impossible to process the sudden loss of a loved one. I think that Kathleen Barry (and friend of mine), Roy's wife of 23 years, captured all of the mixture of grief, gratitude, and love we feel with the loss of a soulmate and loved one. She was willing to share the poignant Love Letter she wrote to him recently and read to us all that day.

 In honor of his love of the famed Hawaiian singer Brother Iz, I've used the song "Kamilani" in the slideshow below. Please feel free to share this with any of Roy's friends, family and loved ones. 




"Love Letter to Roy Jack Mankovitz"

June 30, 2013
 Dear Roy,

I love you. I miss you. Where are you? Are you OK?

Perhaps these four short sentences composed of three simple words say enough of how your sudden and unexpected death has affected my life.  There have been 720 sunrises and sunsets since we last saw one another, since I last heard your voice, since you told me you loved me.

Life has been tumultuous, painful, and bleak without the regular and reaffirming presence of

1)  Your love for me,
2)   Your commitment, love and dedication  for your children, grandchildren, and extended family,
3)  Your passion for ideas and knowledge, AND
4)  Your respect and dedication to the few lucky ones you called friend. 

We miss you.  We love you. We want to know where you are. 

 
Roy in case you don’t remember, this coming August 28th will mark the 25th anniversary of our first meeting.   On that hot summer night in Woodland Hills,  my life changed forevermore.

A quarter of a century leaves me with millions of memories of our wonderful life together.

I recall the many aspects of our life together where we harmonized. 

I also recall those areas where we didn’t harmonize so well.

I savor the sweet remembrances of our loving and fun times with our families and friends in Hawaii, at the Hollywood Bowl, in Tucson, Chicago, Paris, Jerusalem … and most certainly here in Montecito … your last port of call.

I recall the many exciting AHA moments when we had a sneak
preview of one of your or my dreams coming to fruition. 

I hold close to my heart the tender moments when we shared our passions, our worries, and our hopes for our future.

I have thousands of pictures that remind me of our varying hair styles, our evolving body sizes and shapes, our changing styles in clothes, our lovely homes, our phenomenal trips, and our family holidays. 

From all of these memories and photos what I recognize most vividly is the abundance of LOVE and RESPECT that you shared with me, your family, your friends, and your beloved
inventions and ideas.

Roy: You can count on me to love you forever and a day.
Please continue to accompany me in my life as it unfolds  towards the future.  I will call upon you with questions.  When I have a question,  imagine something like this: I will whine ever so slightly as I did throughout our relationship “Dear” and you will wryly respond  as you typically did “Yes Dear … what now?  

I will smile and laugh when I repeat one of your funny expressions. 
I will save your two favorite Hawaiian shirts until I am no more. 
I will continue your legacy and keep your memory alive until I am no more.

You see we are in it for the long haul my dear Roy Mankovitz ….

Through multiple lifetimes and galaxies, know that I have your
back.  I will count on you having mine. 

I promise you that I will continue to live a fulfilling life and make good on the many dreams I have had for my life as well as on the ones we shared together.  I will love your children and grandchildren enough for the two of us..

Wherever you are now and in whatever dimension you have landed, my wish is that your time is filled with incredible explorations, adventurous learning,  peaceful grace, and enduring LOVE. 

Most importantly when you whiz by your beloved Mother Earth, please remember each of us who were left with broken hearts and unrealized conversations in the wake of your hasty departure.

We miss you. We love you. We wish you Godspeed.

You know dear, I had a hard time choosing the right song for the  opening of today’s dedication. Then as though you were tapping me on the shoulder, I realized that you would like us to listen to the beautiful lyrics and melody from one your favorite Hawaiian songs Kamalani sung by Brother Iz.

Roy, Mr. Smarty Pants, did you know that in Hawaiian, kama means child of a chief and lani means sky? 

I don’t know if you were a child of a chief, but you were certainly a chief in your own right. You loved the night sky and often remarked at its wonder when we sat in our yard gazing at the stars.  No doubt you are regularly cruising through the night skies because at your core you ARE a rocket scientist. You are my Kamalani … chief of the night sky.  As the song states, “Kamalani, We will be together again”.

Until that day when I recognize your soulful essence in whatever form it is in and in whatever place I will find you,for now it is here in the Shalom Garden, that I will connect with you on this earthly plane … in the presence of Nature, underneath  these beautiful oak trees and glorious blue sky, on this spiritual land once graced by the Chumash Indians.

Roy I love you. We love you.  Be safe.

Signed me/us … Missing you terribly in Montecito,

Kathleen
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**There was a beautiful bluejay which I noticed during the Dedication that flew over and started singing throughout the whole Dedication. I included a photo of it in the slideshow.